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Wednesday, June 13, 2018

LawFact of the Day: Family Law

Here is your daily LawFact from Wise Law for Wednesday June 13, 2018.

Today we are talking about Family Law.
Many custody disputes in Ontario family law matters are now resolved through mediation, rather than court action. 

Mediators work with parents to create parenting plans and residency schedules that are tailor-made to provide for children’s needs and for joint parenting. Both parties must  obtain independent legal advice to finalize any agreement.
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Wednesday, March 29, 2017

LawFact of the Day: Family Law

Here is your daily LawFact from Wise Law Toronto for Wednesday March 29, 2017. Today we are talking about Family Law.




Many custody disputes in Ontario family law matters are now resolved through mediation, rather than court action.

Mediators work with parents to create parenting plans and residency schedules that are tailor-made to provide for children’s needs and for joint parenting. Both parties must obtain independent legal advice to finalize any agreement.

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Thursday, June 30, 2011

How (and Why) Mediation Works

An anecdotal gem from Los Angeles mediator, Victoria Pynchon:

“We’re leaving,” counsel shouted, gesturing that his client should follow...

“I don’t think that’s a good idea,” I responded in the low, slow, patient tone of voice you use with over-excited children and frightened animals.

“And why do you think that?” he snarled.

“Because the first thing your client said to me was that failure here today was not an option. He’s broke. He’s nearing retirement. He’s beaten. He can’t sleep at night. He needs me to get the best deal possible and then he desperately needs to take a vacation.”

The client, who hadn’t moved a muscle since this exchange began heaved an audible sigh of relief and said to me “thank you so much. I’ve been saying that for two years and no one has ever acknowledged it before.”

- Garry J. Wise, Toronto
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Friday, October 29, 2010

Ontario Family Law: Court of Appeal Rules Superior Court Judges May Request, But Not Order, Children's Lawyer Involvement

In a fascinating ruling released Thursday, the Ontario Court of Appeal held that Ontario Superior Court Justice Victor Paisley erred in ordering, rather than requesting, that the Office of the Children's Lawyer (OCL) investigate and report back to the court with its findings as to the best interests of children in six Ontario family law custody cases.

By way of background, the OCL's role in Ontario family law proceedings is described at its website:
The Office of the Children's Lawyer is a law office in the Ministry of the Attorney General which delivers programs in the administration of justice on behalf of children under the age of 18 with respect to their personal and property rights. Lawyers within the office represent children in various areas of law including child custody and access disputes, child protection proceedings, estate matters and civil litigation. Clinical investigators prepare reports for the court in custody/access proceedings and may assist lawyers who are representing children in such matters.
In this wide ranging decision, the appellate court considered the breadth of the Superior Court's inherent parens patriae jurisdiction and the ramifications of Canada's role as a signatory to the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child - all against a backdrop of the OCL's enormous, current caseload.

The predicament of the OCL, already under-resourced and having difficulty responding to an existing avalanche of requests for its services by Ontario's provincial and federal family law judges, was summarized by Madame Justice Karen Weiler, writing for the Court:

[4] The OCL submits that the Superior Court judge who made the six orders from which appeal is taken exceeded his jurisdiction and erred in invoking the parens patriae jurisdiction of the Superior Court. The Superior Court judge ought to have requested a legal representative pursuant to s. 89(3.1) or a social work report from the OCL pursuant to s. 112 of the CJA and, if that request was refused, asked the OCL to reconsider its refusal or to consider other alternatives. The OCL’s position is further that the Superior Court judge could only invoke the court’s parens patriae jurisdiction to fill a legislative gap which, the OCL submits, does not exist in light of ss. 89(3.1) and 112 of the CJA. Thus, the judge could not order the OCL to act.

[5] Even if the court had the power to exercise its parens patriae jurisdiction, the OCL submits that that jurisdiction ought not to be exercised as, to do so, would open the “floodgates” and the OCL would be unable to function properly. At the oral hearing before us, the OCL sought leave to introduce fresh evidence in the form of an affidavit by Ms. Denal Moyal, the Legal Director of the Personal Rights Department and acting Children’s Lawyer at the time. The intervener, Justice for Children and Youth (JFCY) consented to the affidavit being filed as fresh evidence. In her affidavit, Ms. Moyal deposed that between April 1, 2009 and August 25, 2010, the OCL received 5,548 referrals from judges across Ontario. Of those, 1,873 were from the Ontario Court of Justice and 3,673 were from the Ontario Superior Court of Justice. Five hundred and eighty-two of the 5,548 referrals came from judges sitting in Northern Ontario. Sixty-eight per cent of these orders were made by Ontario Court of Justice judges. During this same period, the OCL accepted a total of 3,432 cases across Ontario. Based on this affidavit, the thrust of the OCL’s argument appears to be that if Superior Court judges do have parens patriae jurisdiction and exercise it in the manner the Superior Court judge has done in these cases, the OCL would be ordered to act in so many cases that it would no longer be able to meet the requests made by Ontario Court of Justice judges, (who do not have parens patriae jurisdiction) particularly those in Northern Ontario.

Madame Justice Weiler summarized the Court's findings:
[79] These appeals did not require the court to engage in a theoretical discussion about whether the Superior Court’s parens patriae power could be used to order the OCL to act. Assuming, without deciding, that Superior Court judges can, in the appropriate circumstances, exercise their parens patriae jurisdiction to order the OCL to act, that jurisdiction ought not to have been exercised in these six appeals. The Superior Court judge ought to have respected the structure of ss. 89 (3.1) and 112 in the CJA, which give the OCL discretion in considering requests for their involvement. He ought not to have circumvented the existing statutory structure for engaging the OCL. Prior to exercising his parens patriae jurisdiction to make an order, it was incumbent on the Superior Court judge to consider and avail himself of the other available avenues for assistance that were responsive to the specific factual problems before him.
Accordingly, I would allow the appeals in the manner indicated.

At root, this ruling casts a spotlight on but one of the many crunches on access to justice now occurring in Ontario's adversarial system of adjudicating family law disputes.

Privately-conducted assessments of children's best interests, typically performed by clinical psychologists, psychiatrists or social workers and often costing $10,000.00 to $15,000.00 or more, are simply unaffordable to most Ontarians.

Nonetheless, family law judges often require such objective, professional input when determining child custody and access disputes. The OCL has long operated as a next-best substitute for such private assessments. In an era of fiscal restraint, however, it simply cannot keep up with the demand. In such a climate, the OCL - institutionally - must have some means of conducting triage. This is a practical reality.

Can one reasonably conclude, however, that the OCL, relying largely on self-serving "Intake Forms" prepared by parents and counsel, is better equipped than judges to operate as preliminary gatekeeper for its services? In fairness, that is where the legislation points.

The Court of Appeal's ruling confirms what family law practitioners in the Province have long known. Our system leaves a vacuum that limits the availability of clinical input in some child custody disputes, even where judges find that it is required, based on the evidence before them .

Could a directional shift toward mandatory family law mediation in Ontario, as recently advocated by Ontario's Chief Justice, Warren Winker, be at least a part of a solution?

Perhaps.

Mandatory family law mediation, with its laudible focus on conflict de-escalation from the outset, may ultimately prove to be the most effective "triage" mechanism of all.

It is worth a try.
- Garry J. Wise, Toronto
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Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Musings on Mandatory Mediation in Family Law Disputes

Ontario’s Chief Justice Warren Winkler is calling for compulsory mediation in family law disputes. If Justice Winker gets his way, court will be the last checkpoint and only after family law disputants have exhausted alternative forms of dispute resolution.

While I cannot help but emphatically agree that the litigation process should not be a starting place for parents, soon to be former spouses and anyone else who falls into the “family” law bucket, I do believe that it has it’s place in the process and not always at the end of the road.

Chief Justice Warren Winkler’s hope to map quest mediation at the beginning of the divorce journey is groundbreaking if only to ensure that mediation and alternative forms of dispute resolution are made known and I hope – available, to all family law disputants. This begs questions such as: who is paying for these services and are those providing the services educated, experienced and equipped to deal with the matters presented?

If, in order to be successful, mediation requires the “buy-in” of the participants, is it an oxymoron to mandate mediation? If a disputant is a “window-shopper” and/or not even a prospective buyer, can a skilled mediator turn the disputant into a customer? Can a non-communicative relationship be turned into one that allows for a healthy conversation? Can mistrust result in open and honest disclosure? And what about domestic violence, safety and power imbalances that impact one’s ability to make sound decisions?

While I am all in favor of a presumption of mediation, I am not confident that mandatory mediation is the answer. I believe it is critical that there be a screening process, and perhaps a multi-level approach to care that strongly emphasizes and encourages mediation at a very early stage in the process.

While I am filled with questions about how this “fresh approach” will work and serve the needs and interests of Canadian families, I remain optimistic that Chief Justice Warren Winkler is working on the answers.

- Deborah Mecklinger, LL.B., M.S.W, A.T.C
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Deborah Mecklinger is a lawyer, mediator and therapist with a successful private practice in Toronto. She is well known for her work in the areas of divorce, mediation, conflict resolution, and individual, couple and family therapy. Contact her by email at deb@walkthetalkcoaching.com
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Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Ontario Chief Justice Seeks Mandatory Mediation in Family Law Proceedings

Ontario Chief Justice Warren Winkler is calling for “dramatic” changes to the justice system that would deny family law litigants access to the courts unless they go through mediation first.

In a speech Tuesday to mark the opening of the province’s courts for 2010-11, Winkler said mediation offers a potentially faster and cheaper way to resolve divorce and custody battles, including a less-complicated process for getting information such as a spouse’s financial statements.

“Accordingly, only in the event that the alternative dispute resolution process is unsuccessful would access to the costly, time-consuming, adversarial and sometimes acrimonious court process be available to litigants,” he said

Amen.
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Sunday, November 22, 2009

The Mediation Mindset

Victoria Pynchon's always-insightful Settle it Now Mediation Blog takes a close look today at the alternate mindset necessary for resolution of conflict through mediation, as opposed to litigation.

She argues that the litigation process necessarily adopts our collective inclination toward "good vs evil" narratives, while mediation, by contrast, emphasizes "interest-based, consensus building, collaborative, problem solving [and] negotiated resolution."

To succeed in mediation, she suggests, the litigation narrative must be dislodged.

She excerpts from Client Counseling, Mediation and Alternative Narratives of Dispute Resolution (Spring 2004) 10 Clinical L. Rev 833, by Law Professor Robert Rubinson, to underline this central point:
The meta-narrative of litigation maps these "strivings" and "vanquishings" onto the struggle of one party against another and enlists the aid of the court to vindicate justice on behalf of the wronged party. In contrast, the meta-narrative of mediation seeks to map these "strivings" and "vanquishings" onto a collaborative struggle to resolve conflict. This narrative casts all participants as players in a process - collaboration - that is focused on reaching the common goal of successfully resolving or transforming a dispute. This story has moral entailments because collaboration is accepted as a social and moral good. Unlike litigation, however, this story does not generate a binary moral universe that divides the good from the bad, but, rather, a universe that values collaborative striving to achieve common ground and resolution.

Needless to say, lawyers attending with clients at mediation play a major role in setting and maintaining the tone of the dialogue that ensues. While I'd argue that there is no one-size-fits-all-cases "mediation mindset," and there are indeed occasions where a "big stick" is warranted - even at mediation - Ms. Pynchon's analysis and comments are sound and largely on the mark.

Mediation works best when legal warriors lay down their swords (if only for the day).

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Monday, July 27, 2009

Another Reason Why Mandatory Family Law Mediation is a Good Idea

Divorce hurts health even after remarriage

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Tuesday, May 27, 2008

A Tale of Three Judges: The Need for Family Law Reform in Ontario

Has the time arrived for fundamental, overall reform of Ontario's system for handling family law cases?

As a quiet, but steady undercurrent of judicial discontent emerges from the Province's courts, it is becoming apparent the status quo is increasingly unsatisfactory, if not yet wholly untenable.

Three unrelated, recent comments by Ontario judges will illustrate the fork in the road we may be approaching.

Collectively, they make a compelling case for change.

In Shaw v. Shaw, [2008] O.J. No. 1111, Mr. Justice Bruce Pugsley of the Ontario Court of Justice at Orangeville was highly critical of the procedural and philosophical disconnect between Ontario's criminal courts and family courts in cases of family breakdown involving allegations of domestic violence:

"the events after the arrest of Ms. Shaw do not, in retrospect, show the police, the Crown, counsel or the criminal judicial system in a good light, although her story is commonplace.

These events have become routine and predictable in almost every allegation of spousal assault such that there is presumably some policy guiding the police and the Crown attorney and forestalling professional discretion in all such matters, no matter how remote the assault may be in time or indeed how trivial the contact.

Spouses of every walk of life and often with completely unblemished prior character are routinely detained for a formal bail hearing for such assaults. Invariably, the defendant (not yet convicted) is excluded from his or her home and prevented from exercising custody of, or access to, the defendant's children without any consideration of the factors that this [family] court must apply by law before determining incidents of custody or access.

This is not for one moment to diminish the impact of spousal abuse on family members and children in Canada. Spousal assaults are by nature serious and there are very sound policy reasons to lay such charges and have them proceed through the judicial system to ultimate resolution if not diverted.

I observe, however, that the damage of which I speak is not from the laying of the charge - this will happen in any event, regardless of the manner in which the defendant is brought before the court. The way that the criminal justice system approaches the commencement of these matters, however, often wreaks family law havoc with the family unit of the defendant and the complainant, and in particular the children of those parties.

Family courts decide custody and access issues on the basis of statute and case law defining the best interests of the children. The criminal justice system pays no attention to such interests because it is not geared up to do so nor are the participants widely trained in how the actions of the system - from the officer who refuses to release the defendant at the station, to the duty counsel who allows the defendant to agree to inappropriate conditions of release out of expediency - effect the lives of the members of the defendant's family. Similarly the Superior Court is tasked with the duty of adjudicating the respective rights of the parties to remain in the matrimonial home pending the resolution of the matrimonial litigation. Routine orders excluding a party from the common home of the parties until the end of the criminal matter without thought to the consequences thereof, and without a remedy short of a bail review, place one party in a position of immediate superiority over the other party for as long as it takes (perhaps a year) for defended criminal charges to be resolved.

Such rote treatment of all matters of domestic assault can lead, on the one hand, to concocted or exaggerated claims of criminal behaviour or, on the other hand, to innocent defendants pleading guilty at an early stage out of expediency or a shared desire with the complainant to start to rehabilitate the family unit."

Secondly, I'll revisit a recent comment by Mr. Justice Joseph Quinn, of the Ontario Superior Court of Justice at St. Catharines, that directly questions whether our Courts are an appropriate forum at all for determination of custody and access disputes:

The parties have gorged on court resources as if the legal system were their private banquet table. It must not happen again... Both sides have shown an inability to abide by court orders such that their access to this court should be restricted by the requirement to obtain leave.

Some day, a wise person in a position of authority will realize that a court of law is not the best forum for deciding custody and access disputes, where principles of common sense masquerade as principles of law.

Finally, I'll once again highlight the sharp criticism levelled on March 13, 2007 by Madame Justice Margaret Scott regarding the chronic shortage of judges at the Ontario Superior Court of Justice (Family Court Branch) at Newmarket:

It is obvious that the system here is so judicial-resource poor that it is in crisis.

Taken together, these comments demonstrate the degree to which family law increasingly finds itself on the very fault line of Ontario's overburdened justice system.

A recent report of the Ontario Bar Association, Getting It Right, recognized many of these issues and responded with a call for sweeping, but significantly costly, changes to the administration of justice in the Province, with particular emphasis on family law.

While the report, in fact, does hit many of the right chords, a truly practical solution may well be considerably simpler than the expansive measures contemplated by the OBA.

As our judges now begin to openly question the very premise that our courts are optimal, able or even suited to deal with the very serious consequences of family breakdown and its many complexities and subtleties, the time may be drawing near for our legislators to reconsider whether mediation and alternate dispute resolution should be the norm, rather than the exception, in the Province's family law cases.

Mandatory mediation is by no means a new or novel process in Ontario.

Since January 4, 1999, Rule 24.1 of Ontario's Rules of Civil Procedure has required mediation of all civil cases in certain designated jurisdictions within the Province. Many mediators report an overwhelming rate of settlement in cases mediated pursuant to this Rule.

Settlement rates are particularly impressive in mediations of wrongful dismissal proceedings, in which the emotionally-charged consequences of soured, employer-employee relationships find their way to Ontario's courts for resolution.

Further, voluntary mediation services are provided free of charge to the public in many Ontario family courts. Legal Aid Ontario also offers family law mediation in cases where at least one party is legally-aided.

With this in mind, is it not odd that family law cases continue to be legislatively excluded from the Province's mandatory mediation regime?

I would argue it is time for that to change.

Mandatory family law mediation would save parties costs, divert numerous cases from the Courts, reduce the strain on the Province's judicial resources, and result in many expedited, satisfactory settlements outside of formal, court processes.

Beyond that, it will in many cases mitigate the human cost of protracted family law litigation, and secure child-centred, appropriate resolution of many parental conflicts that could readily be avoided by the enhanced communication that is carefully developed through mediation.

Ontario social worker and therapist Gary Direnfeld discusses the process and benefits of family law mediation in cases involving children:

Mediation is directed at resolving issues regarding the on-going care and management of children following parental separation or divorce such that a parenting plan is developed or specific issues are resolved. These may be referred to as child custody and/or access maters. In mediation, parents retain control of the outcome.

The role of the mediator is to facilitate discussion, help generate options and educate on matters of concern to the well-being of the children in the context of the parental separation/divorce. The mediator will endeavour to keep behaviour safe and civil to allow appropriate negotiation between the parents.

Parents may be seen together or separately depending on the level of conflict and matters of concern. If seen together, the mediator can separate the participants when necessary and move between separate rooms if required.

A developmental perspective is taken in structuring parenting plans so parents are better prepared to handle natural changes that occur with time
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While there will remain a small minority of family law cases that are legitimately ill-suited for mediation, the vast majority of family law cases would benefit from a requirement that, absent emergency, alternative dispute resolution must be undertaken - particularly in any contested matter involving children - before any court proceeding is litigated in earnest.

If a party seeks to be exempted from such a mediation process, the burden of demonstrating reasonable grounds to a court for such exemption ought plainly to be on that party.

In obvious cases of serious domestic violence, surely this burden would be reasonably simple to meet.

In his article, Are you thinking of Mediation to settle custody and access matters? Mr. Direnfeld elaborates on the alternative dispute resolution process and the special care that mediators must demonstrate in cases of serious domestic violence and abuse:

Mediation is an alternative to court.

Whereas in court the parents are bound by the decision of the judge, in mediation the role of the mediator is to help parents communicate and determine their own solution to the parenting of the children – a mutual agreement.

A mediator is a specially trained professional usually with expertise in child development, family dynamics and in helping people communicate. Some mediators will share their opinions and offer suggestions in the interests of the children while others may concentrate mainly on helping the parents communicate.

.... Mediation is a good and reasonable approach to developing and settling parenting plans, but there are certain instances where mediation is often not recommended. Generally mediation is not recommended where a parent is known to be violent or abusive. If parents want to enter mediation where there is a known history of violence or abuse by either parent to each other or any of the children, they are advised to be certain that the mediator is aware, agrees to continue and has specialized knowledge or training on such issues.

Will mandatory mediation of family law cases soon make a belated entry into the mainstream of Ontario's family court system?

While logistical and practical steps would be necessary to ensure the availability of an adequate contingent of trained and qualified mediators, formally mandated alternative dispute resolution in the province's family law system is long overdue.

Beyond that, if Ontario were to join the 11 U.S. states and the District of Columbia that have enacted legislation providing for a rebuttable, statutory presumption in favor of joint custody upon marital breakdown, a cultural sea-change might well emerge in the disposition of the Province's family law proceedings unlike that ever seen previously...

But that's a whole different topic, for another day.

- Garry J. Wise, Toronto

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Saturday, November 24, 2007

Money-Mediation

For fascinating cross-talk between two seasoned mediators on finding the "silver bullet" in difficult negotiations where money seems to be the only issue, see:

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